Privacy & house rules

Living under one roof works best when expectations are clear from the start. Good house rules and mutual respect for privacy make the difference between 'renting out a room' and 'sharing a happy home'. Here's how to approach it as a host.

Set clear house rules upfront

Discuss your expectations before your tenant moves in and put the main arrangements in writing. Think about:

• use of shared spaces (kitchen, bathroom, living room);
• cleaning and who does what;
• visitors and overnight guests;
• quiet hours and noise;
• smoking, pets and parties.

It needn't be a long list of rules. A few clear agreements prevent most misunderstandings.

Respect each other's privacy

Your tenant's room is their private space. As a host you don't just walk in; agree that you'll knock and only come in with permission or in urgent situations. In return, you can expect your own privacy too. Good arrangements work both ways.

Communication is everything

Most irritations are solved with a simple conversation. Agree on how you'll communicate: a shared chat group, a note on the fridge, or just catching up in the kitchen. Can't work it out together? You can always contact our team; we're happy to help mediate.

Put it in writing together

Include the house rules as an annex to the rental contract, so they're clear to everyone. See also our article on preparing your space and on problems, damage & maintenance.